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May 28, 2012 at 2:08am
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tw: discussion of suicide →

anathemathebibliophile:

iwantmybroodwarback:

anathemathebibliophile:

thinhline:

iwantmybroodwarback:

snipped for being horrible

I don’t want to justify suicide as much as teach people how necessary understanding is in order to reach people who are in danger of committing suicide. If your depression was egging you on to commit suicide would you go to this person for help? This kind of smug self-righteousness only makes the problem worse and forces more people who are contemplating suicide into greater secrecy. If one truly wants to help people from embracing suicide as a solution, it is absolutely necessary to consider their point of view instead of slandering them as cowardly or selfish. Why they are doing it according to THEM and not what you think is vital to truly help them. This attitude doesn’t and only serves to shame (which, with depression, only makes things worse.)

This. Suicidal tendencies aren’t often obvious. If you talk like this about suicide in front of one of your friends who might be struggling, guess who isn’t going to ask you to help them? Seriously, don’t be an asshole. You do not know who’s suffering, and you could be making your friend’s problem worse.

snipped once more because jfc

And it’s wonderful for you that you never did, and I’m serious about that, but depression has an actual biological effect on the brain; there are quite a few theories about the mechanism of how it starts, but it’s absolutely a physical phenomenon. Just because your depression did not manifest with suicidal thoughts does not mean people who do have them can “just snap out of it”. Your neurons are actually damaged. Just saying “oh I am going to feel better now” will not fix that. That sort of thinking is counter-productive, and I’m honestly not going to respond to you again after this message because of your ignorance.

Then they are already lost. Leave mental disorders and other variables such as those out of this discussion. Unless they themselves can overcome their shortcomings they have lost the game of life. They have much bigger things to worry about than suicide.

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  1. iwantmybroodwarback reblogged this from i-have-terrible-taste-in-music
  2. burnthisdiscodown reblogged this from thinhline
  3. jezmm reblogged this from iwantmybroodwarback and added:
    No-one said it was an okay thing, but your views on it are not okay and make it clear you have no idea what it is like...
  4. shinitama reblogged this from thinhline
  5. ciararavenblaze reblogged this from thinhline and added:
    to thinhline—not iwantmybroodwarback: THIS. I, thankfully, have never been in the position of seriously contemplating...
  6. e-strangedness reblogged this from iwantmybroodwarback and added:
    This sounds like rant you’d hear on South Park.
  7. tronlives reblogged this from thinhline and added:
    This is a great response and I hope you feel great about it. People who are suicidal are not cowards, and they need...
  8. thinhline reblogged this from iwantmybroodwarback and added:
    One can say that suicide has a connection to emotion, in as much as most of our decisions in life are connected to...
  9. i-have-terrible-taste-in-music reblogged this from iwantmybroodwarback and added:
    Also, for any fucks seeing this and using the science bit to justify this; the mind can overcome most stituations it is...
  10. anathemathebibliophile reblogged this from iwantmybroodwarback and added:
    I already explained that depression is both psychological and physiological. You clearly either will not or cannot...
  11. skyerana reblogged this from anathemathebibliophile and added:
    That… that little bit there was very hard to read. People that deal with suicidal thoughts often know the arguments...
  12. enterthedreams reblogged this from thinhline and added:
    ^ THANK YOU.